Finest Example of National Integration

It is rightly said relationships are made in heaven. Ours is a family of conservative ethos but modern outlook.

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We are six brothers and three sisters, all married in the same community.

Now it a turn of second generation. The second generation is highly progressive looking and least bothered about century's established social taboos.

First Bhanja Niranjan married to a girl out of our community, inviting ire of all relatives, while all others have reconciled and started loving couple, but his own parents is yet to understand them and welcome. Hope, time will be a great patcher. Personally I feel Neeru has given the perfect example of Viveka Nand's preaching of which he himself is follower. And such persons should be honoured.

Now Kaku was batting. And he married to his class fellow Anju, a very dynamic and handworking partner. She was lecturer in Vansthali and presently working with one MNC. She has now become cynosure of our family and extremely loved by all family members including both side parents.

Then, it is a turn of great Hitesh, my brother's son. He could influence an ex air hostess, Ms Photogenic (Uttarakhand), loving and charming, Priya to be his life partner. Understand that they had affairs for quite some time but seriousness noticed recently. Parents were taken in loop and they were very generous. However, drama was played as if they were absolutely not aware. After Diwali actual drama was unfolded.

However, there is tremendous difference in approaches. While there cannot be any comparison with Neeru. He is done the most pious and saintly work. One need to have guts, boldness and honesty to take such steps. Gordhansa should be proud of him. At least we all are.

Kaku was more discreet and straightforward. He was very clear about his aim and he conveyed his feelings to parents and dearones well in advance and got married once he was able to convince his parents.

Great Hitesh has also chosen partner of his choice. But I personally do not agree on the methodology he has adopted.

Leave this for further discussion.